She's been clear that she doesn't want a relationship right now, but she didn't say i was the problem. She just views relationships as toxic and leading to jealousy. Here's where it gets.

Understanding the Context

She wants the connection but doesn't want to be held down. She may be emotionally unavailable and not ready for a relationship or already has a bf. Either way she likes the attention and is. Well, considering that you already know that she doesn't want a relationship, i bet you're better off as friends.

Key Insights

Perhaps you can try meeting new people and going to places where you can find.